To many Christian marriages have an unholy hanging over them. There is a growing sense of distance between husband and wife, and with this, the ingredients of disruptiveness creep into the union. A women needs to know more about the man in her life if she is going to cope. Why is he the way he is? What makes him behave the way he does? What are his inner fears? Why is he so “distant” at times? What are his spiritual hang-ups? What does he want besides sex? (Does he want anything else?)